As I become more genuine in my participation in communities in our church and in the world, I realize the importance of taking time to learn about one another. I'm coming to realize the importance of being tolerant of different ways of thinking about and of doing things. I'm finding a connection with understanding others and having them understand me because I find that we develop respect for one another when this starts happening. It takes time and usually works in smallish groups, but I'm finding that once we take time to learn about one another and begin to respect our thoughts and passions and gifts, then we can love one another.
If we can struggle through our "limitations of our human capacities to 'have' or 'hold' the truth" (p. 148), and find that indeed God is love, this might be as close to the truth about God as we need to get.
For all the times I try to find the right pieces to put together in a meaningful way. And for all the times that I think if I can just get the right words or have everybody on the same page as me or speak the same language about God. And in my efforts to make sure that everybody understands that the way we want to do things is the best way: I realize it's really about understanding and allowing myself to be understood. It's about respecting and being respectable. It's about loving and being lovable. That might be as close to grasping the way of Christ as I will come.